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	<title>Comments on: The Door Mat</title>
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		<title>By: MDearest</title>
		<link>http://www.keepapitchinin.org/2012/10/29/the-door-mat/comment-page-1/#comment-287954</link>
		<dc:creator>MDearest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2012 18:22:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ivy Stone&#039;s fiction has been featured here before, hasn&#039;t it? Reading her descriptions of New York made me think that she held it in high esteem herself as a vacation destination, and I agree. I love to visit there too. (But we both don&#039;t want to live there -- home sweet home is sweetest.)

I know Rosa Bonheur&#039;s painting at the Met of &quot;The Horse Fair&quot; well; it&#039;s 8 feet tall and about 17 feet long; larger than life size. It&#039;s one of the finest French academic paintings from the mid 1800s found anywhere in the world, and it will make any art history geek&#039;s jaw drop. I was impressed that young Ken was such a connoisseur!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ivy Stone&#8217;s fiction has been featured here before, hasn&#8217;t it? Reading her descriptions of New York made me think that she held it in high esteem herself as a vacation destination, and I agree. I love to visit there too. (But we both don&#8217;t want to live there &#8212; home sweet home is sweetest.)</p>
<p>I know Rosa Bonheur&#8217;s painting at the Met of &#8220;The Horse Fair&#8221; well; it&#8217;s 8 feet tall and about 17 feet long; larger than life size. It&#8217;s one of the finest French academic paintings from the mid 1800s found anywhere in the world, and it will make any art history geek&#8217;s jaw drop. I was impressed that young Ken was such a connoisseur!</p>
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		<title>By: Julia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2012 16:59:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wonder if the desire to be sweet and spiritual is part of why so much LDS writing seems to involve the same tropes, recycled with different circumstances. Mina was asking me the other day, in an email, where the Mormon Shakespeares and Miltons are. Part of me wonders if we lose them because we don&#039;t expect great literature (maybe don&#039;t even want great literature) from Mormon authors. 

I wasn&#039;t meaning to pick on this story or author exclusively, it is just sad that so many stories have such predictable endings/moralizing. I had a friend edit the parable I wrote, and in his notes back he commented that he wasn&#039;t sure if an LDS audience would relate to a parable about a woman/tree that had a bald spot. I just chuckle at the time, but last night I got an email from a reader asking why I didn&#039;t use the lack of makeup, instead of a bald spot. Sigh.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder if the desire to be sweet and spiritual is part of why so much LDS writing seems to involve the same tropes, recycled with different circumstances. Mina was asking me the other day, in an email, where the Mormon Shakespeares and Miltons are. Part of me wonders if we lose them because we don&#8217;t expect great literature (maybe don&#8217;t even want great literature) from Mormon authors. </p>
<p>I wasn&#8217;t meaning to pick on this story or author exclusively, it is just sad that so many stories have such predictable endings/moralizing. I had a friend edit the parable I wrote, and in his notes back he commented that he wasn&#8217;t sure if an LDS audience would relate to a parable about a woman/tree that had a bald spot. I just chuckle at the time, but last night I got an email from a reader asking why I didn&#8217;t use the lack of makeup, instead of a bald spot. Sigh.</p>
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		<title>By: Ardis E. Parshall</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ardis E. Parshall</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2012 16:29:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You mean, like on TV in 2012, lindberg? :)

Julia, I suppose it is patronizing, from our perspective. When I try to imagine how it might have been received by a 1932 audience, I wonder if it wasn&#039;t written/read as sweet, that the husband cared enough about his wife to give her this opportunity, as well as a compliment to mothers underlining how much work they did and how competent they were. (I realize that not recognizing that you&#039;re being patronized is part of the problem, but I also think intentions are important.) Anyway, these old stories are always an exercise for me of trying to step into the mindset of a different era.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You mean, like on TV in 2012, lindberg? <img src='http://www.keepapitchinin.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Julia, I suppose it is patronizing, from our perspective. When I try to imagine how it might have been received by a 1932 audience, I wonder if it wasn&#8217;t written/read as sweet, that the husband cared enough about his wife to give her this opportunity, as well as a compliment to mothers underlining how much work they did and how competent they were. (I realize that not recognizing that you&#8217;re being patronized is part of the problem, but I also think intentions are important.) Anyway, these old stories are always an exercise for me of trying to step into the mindset of a different era.</p>
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		<title>By: lindberg</title>
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		<dc:creator>lindberg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2012 16:21:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It looks like the efficient wife / incompetent husband trope was alive and well back in 1932.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It looks like the efficient wife / incompetent husband trope was alive and well back in 1932.</p>
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		<title>By: Julia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2012 11:13:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I kind of wish they had made the decision to take a break together, instead of being manipulated to go and come back. I know it is a common theme, the other side isn&#039;t always greener, but it seems a little patronizing. Maybe that is just me.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I kind of wish they had made the decision to take a break together, instead of being manipulated to go and come back. I know it is a common theme, the other side isn&#8217;t always greener, but it seems a little patronizing. Maybe that is just me.</p>
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